For most families, divorce is the most undesired result of any marriage. In many instances, it is necessary for individuals to get divorced so there is an opportunity for a better life for all involved. In Tennessee, divorce can only occur in two ways; if there is either a settlement or a divorce trial. The current trend is to end marriages with divorce settlements. It involves less stress, is gentler on all parties involved, and costs significantly less than a divorce trial.
Whether you decide to use settlement or trial, you need to be aware of the entire divorce process, including the things you should be doing prior to the filing of the divorce Complaint. You will want to get your personal money in order, your debts in order, your property in order, and start to plan for a different future that is soon around the corner. An attorney can help you.
Although it is likely that there are feelings of ill will towards your spouse, you want to ensure that you maintain your best chances for a fair and successful divorce. Regardless of the past, you need to focus on your future. Your children, your property, your way of life, and your financial success are all at stake.
If a trial is required, the court will decide who will be granted the divorce and the grounds, whether or not alimony will be awarded, who will be the residential parent, how much time each parent will have with the children, child support, how property and debts will be split, and who will be required to pay court costs and attorneys fees. If a settlement is used, the same issues will be worked out between the spouses and their attorneys, usually in some form of mediation.
Many people wait too long before seeing an attorney regarding divorce. This could be due to shame, denial, fear of quickly ruining the marriage, or simply the deep feelings towards the spouse – no matter how bad the situation. In reality, avoiding seeing an attorney will rarely help your marriage and can actually cause a more complicated divorce and separation. While no attorney can actually save your marriage, they can help you plan your future and start the process of change through sound advice and planning. If you need information regarding divorce, at a minimum research Tennessee divorce in detail. If you know you want a divorce, you should speak with a Tennessee divorce attorney as soon as possible.
You need a divorce attorney who will work closely with you regarding all aspects of your family and the divorce process. You need a compassionate, sincere, and dedicated advocate to fight for your interests. You need to be aware of all possibilities, good or bad, concerning the divorce and your future. You need an attorney you can trust to help secure the brightest future for both you and your children.
I represent clients in multiple areas of law in Rutherford County, Davidson County, Cannon County, Coffee County, Bedford County, Wilson County, and the central Tennessee area.
Drake Drake & Frost
An Association of Attorneys
Darren Drake
Attorney at Law
120 East Main Street, 3rd Floor
Murfreesboro, TN 37130
(615) 410 – 3919